Start Dating Yourself While In College, Learn Why

Whether you are single or in a relationship, we encourage you to date yourself. If you don’t know the reason why, this post could certainly help you understand it further. Plus, we’ll give you tips on how to do it.  

Don’t waste time and start making yourself happy.  

You Will Know What You Are Passionate About  

The more that you spend time alone, the more you would realize what are the things that can make you happy. You can even try even the weirdest things and you won’t have to worry about being judged and ridiculed. 

The experience itself is liberating and can help you get out of your comfort zone. And by learning that, you can do more things in the future. 

You Will Be More Independent  

Have you ever tried watching a movie on your own or eating by yourself in a restaurant? If you haven’t done it yet, then we encourage you to do it once in a while. At least you will not have to rush the same way when you are eating out with other folks. Take things slowly and enjoy every bite.  

Believe us, you will be able to feel that doing things on your own can be fun too. You are freer!  

No Need To Compromise  

If you are always spending time with other people, chances are, you have to compromise. You need to consider what they want and probably sacrifice a little of what you truly desire. Well, that’s part of building a relationship. However, you also need to have a time where you can be on your own and just to say yes to what you want and need. Dating yourself is the perfect opportunity for this.  

You Don’t Care About What Others Think  

The reason why many people are not confident is that they always consider what people would think about their decisions. They feel that all eyes are on them. But if you practice dating yourself or doing things on your own, you would get used to not pleasing others. And that’s important too. 

You Get Some Serious Pampering  

As a college student, we know that it can be stressful, and you might not have the time to go to the spa – all thanks to reports and exams. Instead of spending time with friends next weekend, book a massage session and just learn to pamper yourself.  

It Recharges You  

When you are on your own, the only responsibility you need to carry is yourself. You can take a rest and essentially, this will help you recharge for more things. And as we all know, those who are studying in the university can have a lot on their plate. It is beneficial to step back a bit.  

How To Date Yourself  

To be honest, there’s no exact formula for dating yourself. You can plan or just do it randomly. What’s important is that you give yourself a ‘me’ time. Try it once and we’re pretty sure you will get addicted to it. However, if you are not the type who does things randomly, here are a few things you can do.  

Look At Your Calendar  

Since you have a lot of things to do, you probably need to schedule your date with yourself. Check your calendar and look for a day and time that you don’t have school obligations. This doesn’t have to be a full day. A couple of hours should do you good.  

Think Of What You Want To Do 

This depends on what you love. If you want to go out for a hike, then go ahead. If you wish to eat in a fancy restaurant, make sure you have funds for it. Do you want to visit the salon and have a new hairstyle? Go ahead and do it right away.  

We encourage you to list it down and take it from there. Narrow down your options based on your free time and of course, your budget.  

Wear Something Nice (Or Not)  

What we really want to tell you is to wear something that will make you feel nice. If you want to dress up or if you want to wear your old jeans, it’s up to you. Again, just do things that will make you happy and you are all good.  

Fun Ideas For Dating Yourself  

• Fancy Dinner  
• Art Classes  
• Cooking Classes  
• Read A Book in A Public Place  
• Travel  
• Go to A Museum